20 little things I’ve learned life is too short for..!

1. Not asking if you can say hi to a really cute dog.

But always ask first.

2. Passing up the one dish you really want just because

you think you should “get the salad.”

If you’re at your favorite restaurant,

you should order your favorite meal.

If you want a side of fries, have a side of fries.

They’re fries, not one of the seven deadly sins.

And they want you to be happy.

3. Not asking for a raise because you’re afraid

of being denied. At the very least,

you’ll learn what you need to work on so

that you get one the next time around.

4. Not applying for that job because you’re afraid

you’re not qualified enough.

Make the application personal.

Reach out. If nothing else, they’ll know who you are

and remember you.

That first impression is priceless.

5. Not introducing yourself to people

you admire because you think they’re above you.

They’re not, and they were once where you are now.

They remember that.

6. Wearing heels when you want to wear flats.

7. Wearing flats when you want to wear sneakers.

8. Wearing literally anything that bunches

in weird places, is too tight or too uncomfortable,

or doesn’t feel like something your best self would wear.

(You can totally be your best self in sweatpants.)

9. Letting the actions of other people dictate

your own happiness.

FOMO is a real, 21st century phenomenon.

Just because it’s real doesn’t mean it’s not bullshit.

Live your life offline. Photo-worthy opportunities

will arise naturally because of that.

10. Not telling people how you feel, whether it’s

that you love them, or that they hurt your feelings,

or that you have a great idea, or that you feel used

or alone or scared or happy.

Express yourself, at every chance you can.

The people who care about those feelings

are the one to keep around.

11. Worrying about those five pounds.

Nobody but you knows they exist.

12. Not standing up for yourself.

13. And your work.

14. And what you believe in.

15. And what you deserve.

16. Rallying when you’re tired and really

just want to go home.

Life is short, yes, but there will be more nights

to spend with friends and laugh and reminisce

and make memories.

Doing all of those things when you’re

in a bad mood benefits no one.

17. Beating yourself up for a mistake.

Apologize once, and then work to make it better,

but also remember to forgive yourself for being —

of all things you might have the audacity to be — human.

18. Not watching cheesy movies or listening

to catchy pop songs because you think

you should have better taste than that.

Netflix is full of fluffy rom-coms that do nothing

but provide joy.

Thinking you’re above a little lowest common

denominator happiness just means

you’re denying yourself potential happiness.

It doesn’t make you any more high brow

than anyone else.

19. Filling your life with so much unnecessary stuff

just because it looked pretty in the store,

or you wanted it in that moment.

You can’t take your mounds of stuff with you.

Stuff doesn’t mean anything in the long run.

Sometimes practicing impulse control is only getting

us ready and excited for the stuff that’s really worth it.

20. Not eating dessert.

Like I said, you can’t take it with you,

and that includes whatever jiggle you earned

from eating that really delicious cookie.

And like I said, nobody notices those five pounds.

Eat the cookie. Life will be sweeter for it.